Or maybe she just seems to be handling the whole breakup a lot better than you are.The question remains: how is she able to move on so fast, and why does all this seem so much harder on you than it is on her?Change the subject—preferably to some of the positive things you’ve been up to lately. You can’t reward her decision to date someone else by staying in touch with her and acting like her friend.That just tells her that she can string you along by having a boyfriend and shoving it in your face.You may be tempted to ask questions about this “other guy” and badmouth him, but don’t do it. If she asks you whether you’ve been dating anyone, feel free to mention that you met a really cool girl recently, or that you’ve been going out and meeting some cool new people. But no matter what, you have to control your reaction when she talks about spending time with another guy.Don’t give her the attention she is undoubtedly looking for, and don’t beg her to dump him and take you back.This will only show that you are a person who is immature.
Don't write notes like "I love you" or "I will always available for you" etc. Doing this will increase the reputation for you in her mind and she will respect you more. Start improving yourself and really make yourself busy If there was a reason of the failure of your relationship then you should work on that and actually remove them from your life if those are really bad.
I’m aware that there are many little hurdles or speed bumps that can emerge at this point, so it’s important that we address some of the most common ones. If she’s dating someone else, you’re obviously not going to be happy about it. Don’t ask questions about this “other guy.” Treat him like he’s a non-factor. These types of questions reinforce in her mind that YOU are the one guy who not only knows her, but also knows the people who matter to her.
If you don’t feel that the previous sections addressed your situation, your problem will hopefully be covered here. Tell her, “As long as you’re happy, I’m happy for you.” And then change the subject and talk to her about something else. The “new guy” she’s supposedly dating doesn’t share this level of closeness with her.
You figure the easiest way to do this is to send her a non threatening text message to check up on her. You pull out your phone, type in a very non threatening text message, send it to her and you wind up getting a response like this, Before you sent that text your hopes were so high, you were daydreaming of your future together with her.
Of course, after you sent the text that daydream was shattered and replaced with anger, heartache and jealousy.