420 Singles isn’t the most populated dating site, but that’s probably because users keep forgetting their passwords.If you’ve given up on finding someone attractive and you’re fine with someone with self-esteem as low as yours, Ugly Schmucks may be your best bet. The answer is not always as obvious as we might like.In a culture as visual as ours, we demand the most conspicuous of tells.If a guy is covered in maritime tats and wears Warby Parker specs, he's probably open-minded and down with composting.If you spot truck nuts dangling from his jacked-up Ford F-350 Super Duty, he may feel that "the old ways are the best ways." Sadly, unless a dude picks you up in a minivan that's not his mom's, the clues about his readiness for long-term commitment won't be as blaring as his Coexist bumper sticker. I'm a recovered louse who wised up to a good thing.And whenever you’re dealing with something that is inherently contradictory, there is no easy answer.Human nature is far too complex, and people are rarely even in touch with how they feel themselves.
The dudes they link up with are either "not looking for a relationship right now" or "trying to get my life together" or "just not in that place right now where blah bity blah, blah…" Or whatever handy victim-of-circumstance lines men use to avoid emotional intimacy. From what I've observed (and overheard from people on dates at restaurants), any baggage you might hold from wasting time on "commitment cowards" surfaces in those tense moments when two newly dating people gauge their respective levels of emotional availability. " — it's clear she doesn't want to waste a minute more on a guy who can't lock it down.
You are a powerful man in the business community; the world is your oyster, so why are you feeling a bit sad and forlorn?
Well, for most men in this situation the answer is that there may be something of great importance that is lacking in your life.
I am a 30 years old woman recently out of a 2 year relationship. I don’t want to be in another LONG term relationship without a possibility of marriage or finding out too late that the guy is just not ready for marriage.
I know that you don’t want to bring up the “question” or bring up commitment.